Forgive!

Holding anger is a poison. It eats you from inside. We think that hating is a weapon that attacks the other person who harmed us. But hatred is a curved blade. And the harm we do, we do to ourselves.

- The Five People You Meet in Heaven by Mitch Albom

Under the Influence

Marriage is a compromise, its about doing something for the other person even when you dont want it. - The Wedding by Nicholas Sparks

Well for me: Marriage is a compromise, it is about drinking beer with your husband even when you dont like it! :p

My husband is alcoholic, nah im just kidding. As much as he is a good husband, he is an obedient one too. Here's a little story. You see, sometime last month, i allowed him to drink (alcohol) on weekends ONLY WHEN there is an occassion. BUT i noticed that every weekend, there gone one celebration to another like a birthday of someone, anniversary of another, their dog Via was expecting (can you imagine!) and when that pity dog got miscarriage. All these they celebrated with a BRANDY!

As they say, when you cannot stop them, join them. And so there i had some drink with him! Kidding. Im no saint, i admit i got drunk in the past too. But i really appreciate its bitter taste when im into a bitter situation. But when it's weekly, OMG!?!

And before you conclude, i have to reveal now that, that picture was from my ex boss despidida party at Giligans a month ago and each of us got a bottle of beer. :)

Smile! Bond.

There is no experience like having children. There's no substitute for it. You cannot do it with a friend. You cannot do it with a lover. IF your want the experience of having complete responsibility for another human being, and to learn to love and bond in the deepest way. Then you should have children. - Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom