Although there are many trial marriages...

..... there is no such thing as a trial child!



before going to work this morning, hubby requested for a snap shot.. after seeing my father and child photo i sigh while thanking God of our marriage and our little family. and then i thought of others, their marriage, some trial marriages or broken union in its sense...

yes, there are many trial marriages, and every newly wed couple are on adjustment period even after ten years or so of matrimony, BUT there is no trial child. to have a child is to be responsible enough. when someone asked me my biggest responsibility so far? i would often reply, my husband and my child!

yes, i am responsible on my husband's becoming, will he be a better person after saying, yes i do to me? i guess he is responsible for himself partly as a husband and a father, but i will contribute the biggest on his becoming as a person on our society..

also, i am responsible on this little child, on molding her to be a good person, on her utmost share on our society and on her valuable part in this world.

true enough, family is the smallest unit of the society and from it roots all the world's becoming. and why am i saying this? i guess, i just got inspired from yena's poses in this picture! :D kala niyo deep na noh? hahah heheh..

truth is, i am so overwhelmed now. last night, right after leaving yena to her daddy, hubby and his nephews heard her said “MAMA” with her eyes on my direction. i did not hear it, but knowing yena called me “mama’ brings shiver to my bones! i soooo love it!