You will thank me for warning you

On my quest to have a healthy marriage, I have files of what to do lists on my computer and share it to husband, who gets bored reading and so I find myself narrating each and every points on him. He ought to know, it’s a partnership! :)

But what I never read from those articles on magazines/newspapers on building a healthy relationship is that one has to lose self when you get married.

Until last sunday morning’s mass.The priest was right. The first thing one should be prepared of when falling in love is

TO CRY. It’s the package. One beautifully wrap gift called love but with lots of aches and hurts on the side. Yes it’s true, when you love, you get hurt, you cry. And you will cry buckets if not rivers of tears when you get married.

Yes, our marriage is not always a bed of roses, not always a smiley, but we try to pull through. Maintaining a partnership called marriage is hard, the bankruptcy rate is high. LOL

In marriage, there is not only overflowing of joy but also lots of tears. But I think it is with this tears that fuels the flame of love. Some tears of joy here, some tears of heartaches there. It’s the science of love.