Open Advice for Career Decisions

In any career decision, leaving or staying should only be done for the right reasons...

For one, you shouldn't leave because you don't like several people inthe company, nor should you stay because of the friends you have made there. At the end of the day, it is your life. Your friends or "enemies"should not make or break your career. If you let them be the deciding factor, then maybe you should think twice. You are the craftsman of your fate and the captain of your ship. Captain Hook shouldn't be one of your worries!

Do not leave nor stay because of the "brand" of your company. Ask yourself whether you want to be a big fish in a small pond or a small fish in a bigger pond. Know your priorities. Only you can answer that.

Do not leave the company because you're so damn frustrated about the way things are being run, or stay because you have this "messianic complex"that you can change things overnight. Be realistic about the things. Learn to accept that there is no perfect company. Be accepting that change is a slow and painful process at times and be thankful that you realize and act on things that can be changed and improved.

Definitely, do not leave or stay just because your parents want you to. I know I am advocating obedience to parents but again, we are talking about YOUR career. But learn to value their wisdom and discern well.

Money isn't everything. The package being offered now might be better but look at the long-term prospects. Do not leave or stay just solely onthe compensation package. Look for growth prospects and review their career plans for you. Your immediate gains today might actually be aloss a few years from now if you do the Math.

Boredom is another challenge all professionals are faced with during lull periods in their career. Do not leave because you have become sobored with your job. Do not stay either because you want things as they are. Change is inevitable in any organization. Talk to your boss. Ask for more responsibilities or other tasks if you're bored. Enroll in a special course. If you're satisfied with the status quo and is jus twaiting for retirement hoping things will stay the same, you're in for abig disappointment - either you will be forced to change or you will beforced to leave.

Be ready before that time comes. Boredom or complacencyis a perennial battle most professionals have to deal with. Arm yourself with creativity everyday!

Tonight I suggest you rest well. Sit still and listen to what He is saying. PRAY. I have always made my career decisions through His guidance.He was and still is my Career Adviser/Talent Manager.

Your work, our work, is a vocation. He knows us more than we know ourselves so trust Him for whatever plans He has for you. You can never go wrong.

And remember: Use your head to get to the top. But use your heart to stay.

^From an email forwarded to me. Dont know who the author was, bdw thanks to whoever you are! i just want to post it here to remind me everyday that there is no such thing as perfect company!.. Let it be an eye-opener for those who changes work as often like changing clothes. (Ilag niko!!) LOL