when they want to steal your sunshine

"Never allow anyone to rain on your parade and thus cast a pall of gloom and defeat on the entire day. Remember that no talent, no self-denial, no brains, no character, are required to set up in the fault-finding business. Nothing external can have any power over you unless you permit it. Your time is too precious to be sacrificed in wasted days combating the menial forces of hate, jealously, and envy. Guard your fragile life carefully. Only God can shape a flower, but any foolish child can pull it to pieces "

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yeah, i'm emotional now.. why do some people want to see you sad? they applaud when you're unhappy? they celebrate at your sorrow? they steal your smile? and they want to see you torn into pieces?

call it hate, jealousy or envy. whatever.

i just realized that when you're in high spirits not everyone will be pleased. i know its impossible to delight everyone, but why be miserable on my happiness if you can laugh it out loud with me??!

they say share good vibes. cheers to happiness to everyone, and i am meaning to divide it to anyone who want a bite. I know, hateful people would ignore it. and i must learn to accept that it is not my problem anymore.

i am just amused, why are there people who want to see me torn apart. these people hate to see my marriage going stronger everyday. IF YOU'RE JEALOUS, BUILD A STRONGER FAMILY. RELAX! SETTLE WITH THE PERSON YOU REALLY LOVE AND NOT WITH SOMEBODY ELSE TO GET YOU OUT OF INCONVENIENCE, AND THEN TRY TO BREATH AND GET A LIFE!

yes, i am happy but it is with constant prayer, continuous effort and ardent sacrifice that have it all going. marriage is a partnership i am slowly undertaking with my husband. and we are brave beginners who would like to battle it til the end. being a new parent is so really new to us, but we are more than willing to learn to be the best in our own world.

sad to say, there are people around me who prefer to see me down in my so slowly way up! ;)