other man's grass is always greener

first day sa work ng aking hubby dear today. since yena's birth 24/7 na kaming tatlong magkakasama.. its not that i dont want him to work or him not wanting to work. its the "job" that is to blame. there are lots of potential companies hes been applying to but to no avail its always a lose-lose situation. it's on graveyard shift or the location is far or the offer is too cheap. luckily when i am finally ready to accept the fact that he'll be the houseband the "perfect" offer came along. and boila! right now, he's there working his ass out! and i just wish him luck to his new job and i hope na 'may christmas basket or gift checque' for that is his first requirement! LOL


yesterday i had a chat with a friend. he's asking for some advice if he should get married. he's financially ready. he doesnt know if he was emotionally ready for it though. he asked me cause he knew ive been in that situation before. but its a different scene i know. i said. "you decide! it's your life. when you see yourself with that person and you picture yourself holding hands and having a chitchat until you both have white hairs na.. go on! get married!! she may not be the perfect person or it may not be the perfect timing. but when you decide, that is it!"


he wanted to get married daw cause all of our friends settled already. yeah friends. friends in highschool and in college, some of them i see only in friendster.. different lives already. different paths. greener pasture.. some career wise moved to the other country, working and living the luxury anyone could ever wish for. he saw other peoples grass greener i saw his life greener (literally for me!)..


he asked me how's my married life?


and i said im happy. understatement. super happy. he's puzzled. he should be i know. i am moody. my hubby is super moody and unpredictable. we are not perfect. we have problems. lotssss of them. but who the heck has no problem??


i just told him that right now, i am happy, happier, happiest in the arms of the one who truly loves me.


its good to know that when the clock ticks at 5pm i am running to the elevator hurrying to get home coz i will be in my greeenest grass..


i'll be with my little family.
me, yobib and our yena.


that for me is the greenest pasture!!